Do you have "good vibe" and "bad vibe" clothes?
You know the ones ... that dress or outfit that is a sure thing, your happy clothes, the clothes that you've worn before, when good stuff has happened? Is it our imagination or is it more likely a confidence thing - you feel like you're smokin', you feel invincible, you feel professional/sexy/confident/stylish and unstoppable.
Likewise, do you have "bad vibe" clothes? The clothes that make you feel blah, that everything sort of implodes when you wear them, that you know just aren't good for you. I'm like that with the colour red. I own nothing red, red makes me angry. I look and feel angry in red. I just don't get red. I also had a particularly toxic pink work jacket with garish faux gold buttons. I thought it whispered "Chanel" but in reality, it screamed "Cheap Chain Store". I never felt great in that jacket (probably because it clashed with my complexion, or because I used to wear it with a black short skirt and anything that involved me showing my legs always made me feel less than average) But it was the early 90's so I can be forgiven.
I have a dress that just doesn't work for me. It's a cute style
It's better than feeling sorry for yourself.